if you wanna make a big deal of this im petty enough to just not use any pronouns
i will out of sheer spite use direct eye contact and even gesturing to you and all of your guests and compleatly omit all pronouns right then and there
When on earth without server need to know your pronouns? Never once as a server did I need anyone’s pronouns I never had a need for them? Why tf would you give your server them right upfront for NO reason at all???
so, if I'm correct the server called her Ma'am and she didn't like it and corrected the server? Ma'am is still acceptable, so I don't see why there is an issue on her end. I can't speak for her but obviously, you don't call someone masculine presenting ma'am.
You can actually serve someone without using any pronouns if they choose to make life difficult for you by dictating how you should speak. It's like saying, ok happy not to call you a he, but I'll never call you a she.
Do people have to ask for pronouns it just over complicates things for no reason why dont people just ask respectfully for their gender and what even is a they them
Waiter has a valid point, you can’t just assume someone automatically knows your pronouns. I’m your waiter, not your friend. If a mistake happens, get over it.
He just got a dose of what he puts people through every time he films himself at a restaurant ranting about his pro nouns 😂😂😂😂 reverse uno mother ducker 😂
Why would he need to know that? My whole life I've never told the waiter to call me He or something… Poor man just hot confused with unessesary information
I mean if someone tells you their pronouns i believe the easiest thing to do it just say "yeah no problem!" And then use their pronouns if you need to… I think that some people feel more at ease throughout their visit somewhere when they say their pronouns to the people they are interacting with especially if they are trans or nonbinary, that way there's less likely to be strange prolonged looks or second guessing on the servers behalf
He might have been able to understand better if he took the ear defender off. I say he because I don’t think he is genuinely trans I call these people attentiontrans and they are so damaging to the genuine trans community. I’m 95% sure he also doesn’t need the defenders and that’s just an attention beacon too. The fact that he wanted to record an insignificant interaction with a waiter tells me everything i need to know. I have no time for people like that.
He calls him a server, not waiter or waitress. The "server" should refer to the customer as customer. Seems okay to use a term that does not require demands or instructions.
It’s sad someone has to do that much explaining over damn pronouns especially if they look like a chick !!!!!!. Idgaf what you are ima call you how you look. If you don’t like it do a better job cause I’m not playing that game 🤣 lgbtq and trans community is the only group of people I’ve openly cant be around and it’s how they act not who they are. Vast majority want to be center of attention drama queens who wan the most and give the least to the world and expects to be on top of the conversation.
if you wanna make a big deal of this im petty enough to just not use any pronouns
i will out of sheer spite use direct eye contact and even gesturing to you and all of your guests and compleatly omit all pronouns right then and there
He is really trying not to lose his job😂 I say fuck it just call him a guy it is a dude after all
Its a man. Call him MAN, HE
When on earth without server need to know your pronouns? Never once as a server did I need anyone’s pronouns I never had a need for them? Why tf would you give your server them right upfront for NO reason at all???
This guy is streaming or whatever to purposely have drama. Gtfo here
More like he/ dumb
Awww this server is really sweet
so, if I'm correct the server called her Ma'am and she didn't like it and corrected the server? Ma'am is still acceptable, so I don't see why there is an issue on her end. I can't speak for her but obviously, you don't call someone masculine presenting ma'am.
You can actually serve someone without using any pronouns if they choose to make life difficult for you by dictating how you should speak. It's like saying, ok happy not to call you a he, but I'll never call you a she.
Why are all, or almost all, of these creatures, so hard to look at ?? .
(please note that I did not call them ugly)
Do people have to ask for pronouns it just over complicates things for no reason why dont people just ask respectfully for their gender and what even is a they them
Stupid
Over explained
He talks like such a dude but wants to be treated like a lady……sorry but id just leave if they/them came near me!!
"can i have a water and im a she her," please just order your fkn water, for fk sakes its just so off topic
Waiter has a valid point, you can’t just assume someone automatically knows your pronouns. I’m your waiter, not your friend. If a mistake happens, get over it.
I just want my food order right!
He just got a dose of what he puts people through every time he films himself at a restaurant ranting about his pro nouns 😂😂😂😂 reverse uno mother ducker 😂
This made me laugh so hard 😂😂
Dude, that's a Dude..
Why would he need to know that? My whole life I've never told the waiter to call me He or something… Poor man just hot confused with unessesary information
As soon as she he said that I would have refused service, more of a headache then it’s worth
“I don’t have a lot of friends.
MAN
"My pronouns are SHE/HER" ……OK so what the fuck do you want to eat?
I mean if someone tells you their pronouns i believe the easiest thing to do it just say "yeah no problem!" And then use their pronouns if you need to… I think that some people feel more at ease throughout their visit somewhere when they say their pronouns to the people they are interacting with especially if they are trans or nonbinary, that way there's less likely to be strange prolonged looks or second guessing on the servers behalf
the boy needs a safe space well stay home
In first place LEARN SOME GODAM RESPECT AND TAKE OF YOUR FKING HEADPHONES MFKER
He might have been able to understand better if he took the ear defender off. I say he because I don’t think he is genuinely trans I call these people attentiontrans and they are so damaging to the genuine trans community. I’m 95% sure he also doesn’t need the defenders and that’s just an attention beacon too. The fact that he wanted to record an insignificant interaction with a waiter tells me everything i need to know. I have no time for people like that.
Why can't we just be gay or straight why make things so complicated
Oh my fcking this DUDE with pink hair makes me feels some type of way 🙄
I still don't understand. If you identify as she and her, wouldn't you be a ma'am?
He calls him a server, not waiter or waitress.
The "server" should refer to the customer as customer.
Seems okay to use a term that does not require demands or instructions.
Messed up human looking for attention.
there are people like me who dont have a gender i was born as an intersex i wish people understand people like me.
Trans people are so happy. I want to join this cult.
I agree with him!
Did he approach her as ma’am? Ma’am is a she/her thing! Omg some times people take things just a bit too far!
Anyway regular water, these fckin clown making a drama for fckin regular water
Stop pandering to these ridiculous people please !
If you start out a convo with that, I'm walking away and ignoring anything else you say.
share my delusion please
No
Coping…
It’s sad someone has to do that much explaining over damn pronouns especially if they look like a chick !!!!!!. Idgaf what you are ima call you how you look. If you don’t like it do a better job cause I’m not playing that game 🤣 lgbtq and trans community is the only group of people I’ve openly cant be around and it’s how they act not who they are. Vast majority want to be center of attention drama queens who wan the most and give the least to the world and expects to be on top of the conversation.
That very look this dude gave to the camera at the end in the very feeling we have when we encounter dudes like this in the wig. And that is…. WTF!?
Why is he wearing headphones in a restaurant?
Who goes to a restaurant and say that delusional sht?
His pronoun should be deluded, confused,
I would have just said he/sir because……….thats what HE is.
Please come back, A.H.